I decided to try and bring in a judgment-free respectful approach to a vacation. That translated into what I jokingly named 'Shruti's Should-less Vacation'. I took away the deliverable of an 'improved Shruti' that I expect after each vacation. I (tried to) give myself permission to not emerge a better person, a more informed or better read person. As a performing extrovert, I find conversations recharging but recharge best when alone.